Gig buster: the reconstruction of women’s right organization
Women’s right is human right but only a narrow band of topics reach the headline.
A group of women organizations petition for inspection of sexually harassed government officers by their supervisors or other higher positions.
Sexual harassment case and “improper” behavior among government officers had been reported first from the Ministry of Social Welfare and Human Security. The officer in question is now married to his junior staff after a bitter divorce with his wife. Then these women advocacy group scanned sexual harassment petitions in civil services and coined “sexually corrupted” to describe the behavior.
What had been reported was a mixture of consented office relationship when one part of the equation is married, serious harassments and rapes. The degree of gravity was taken indistinctively between two consenting adults who committed adultery and women who claimed to be or had been violated.
When news like these make it to the tabloid headline, the highlight was not on structural oppression of women but on upholding “moral standards” male civil officers. Civil officers of both sex are expected to be human extraordinaire. Yet, to me it would not solve sexual harassment. It even over generalized sexual harassment as having “consenting” gigs, from perspective of some “mia luangs. It would even jeopardizing ideal example of good family and good heterosexual relationship, while marginalizing the others. It underestimates power play in official and unofficial marriage. It makes the relationship public but not necessary political as it allow intervention and governmentality from bureaucracy system. Such intervention may save face of the people who had been offended in case of the husband wanted to disband his wife for a gig, yet it still reply on traditional belief that a husband is a wife’s ego. She must hold on to him at all cost.
The professional ethnic gives a very broad terms of improper behaviors or mis-conductivities. Both problems may be the obvious result of patriarchal structures that allow men to roam free and women bear the guilts and blame as clearly exemplified by the Interior Minister’s comment that it is normal or old men to have “mia nois or gigs.” That said, he did not have any ideas of sexual harassment.
On the other hand, officers who have consenting gigs with other officers in office while they are in official marriage did not harass their colleague, but it was considered that they mistreat their wives or husbands. They they should not be under disciplinary action of sexual harassment. Whether the civil service will interfere with the marriage is another matter. Yet it would be difficult to proof whether it was harassment or consent in the beginning.
The line is thin, yet we have to see the different between sexual harassment (a woman in the office raped or harasses by her colleagues or supervisors )and relationship problems (a civil officer, who is husband of someone has a “gig” with a consenting female civil officer). Improper behavior and violence and harassment must be separated.
We are not getting anywhere.
It make me feel sorry being lumped with some people doing women’s studies.
Filed under: Women Studies